Erotic massage is a wonderful way to relax, let all your cares drift away and explore new pleasures with someone special. Tantra is about enjoying and honoring our body as a temple of pleasure. This experience will let you explore the erotic energy as never before, and its practice is also a great prelude before making love.
The 7 benefits of erotic massage are:
1. It awakens your senses and activates the healing of the whole body.
2. It lets you explore pleasure as never before.
3. Gets the most intimate just by eye contact, connected breathing and touching.
4. Creates a special connection between the person who gives the massage and the person who receives it.
5. It manages to reach the full body orgasm trough breath, sound and movement.
6. It allows Oneness to emerge.
7. It works as a preliminary of lovemaking.
Preparation
It is important to be in a warm and peaceful place where both of you feel comfortable and won’t be disturbed for two hours. Make sure your mobile phones are off. Light a candle, turn on some music and relax.
The Heart Salutation
The heart salutation is an old tantric technique which tries to identify the divine in each other when entering the sacred temple, in other words, the human body. We well explain to you how to do it: sit down in front of your partner and look him/her in the eyes. Keep the eye contact during the whole process. Spread your arms down with your palms together. Take a deep breath, and keeping your palms together, take them to the heart. After that, bend forward and exhale at the same time and notice the divine in each other. Take another deep breath and go back to your initial position with you back straight. To conclude, exhale and again place your hands in the initial position.
The Bubble
The bubble allows your conscience to be present every moment and it creates a safe space for the erotic massage. For that purpose, make a bubble with your arms and your partner’s that surround both of you. It is important to erase from your bubble all the negative things that don’t contribute to this process (the past, different distractions, anger, worries… etc) Do it while making gestures as if you would erase a physical object and say out loud everything you want to erase. Next, bring to the bubble only positive things which you think can improve your connexion (love, disposition, trust… etc) Like before, say it out loud while making gestures. For example:
“I release the past”
“I call passion”
Share your limits, fears, and desires.
Once the bubble is created, share your desires, fears and limits related to giving and/ or getting an erotic massage. One person of the couple says everything he or she feels without being judged from the other person. After that, they switch roles. For example:
“I would like to connect to erotic energy”
“I am worried about falling asleep and that you might feel disappointed”
“My limit is ending this session by at eleven o’clock”
If you want to know more about erotic massage, I recommend you to read our post “Erotic Massage, what can be learnt? https://masajistagaymadrid.com/en/erotic-massage-what-can-be-learnt-from-an-erotic-massage/
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